Children, like adults, have all sorts of reactions and feelings when someone or something they love dies. Teaching them to communicate their feelings and say goodbye to the relationship that has ended is our responsibility as parents, mentors and educators.
Be open for Children of any age benefit from having a familiar routine. The same mealtime, bedtime, tasks or chores help a child feel secure and in control.
Recognize that this is a special time in a child's life. He or she may need more affection and may depend on you even more. Allow that to happen. A child may request something out of the norm, such as to sleep with you, a special blanket or a hug.
There is no right or wrong way to feel or react in the event of a death. Nor is there a magical amount of time which states a child should be recovered. Allow your child to mourn and participate with him or her in that process.
Have Discussions with your child.
Most Importantly.... Listen! Listen! Listen!!!
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